Ladies Luncheon

The women in Brett's family have the best tradition. The Saturday after Thanksgiving they all go out to lunch to a nice restaurant. Someone is in charge of arranging the event, choosing the restaurant and getting a small gift for each woman. Since I'm not able to attend this year, I thought I'd share my experience of my first Women's Luncheon.

Brett and I had just been married that spring. We did not have a lot of money and we were saving our money for Christmas. The luncheon was at the Grand America Hotel. It was beautiful. They had Christmas decorations all around. After looking at the Menu I decided to order a salad. It was $12. The cheapest item on the menu. :) My Sister in Law and I were in the same boat. We sat there together and ate our salads while everyone else enjoyed their Salmon, Prime Rib etc.... When we were all done the person in charge decided to take the total of everyone's meals and divide it by how many people that were there. We ended up paying $24 for our $12 salad. It is so funny to look back on that day

So Funny

Brett's family has a tradition of cutting down their Christmas Tree the day after thanksgiving. Ethan joined them this year. When I called him today to see how it went I asked him "Did the Christmas Tree smell good?" he said "No, It smelled pokey!"

Thanksgiving Treat :)

It was Thursday November 17th. I remember one of my Friends on Facebook posted the song "I've got a Feelin"...... That Tonight's Gonna Be A Good Night" by the Black Eyed Peas. I remembering thinking to myself that tonight was going to be a good night for me. Even thought we did not have any plans of any sort.

Later that night, I had just gotten off work, picked up Ethan from the sitters and was pulling into the driveway. I got a call from Brett. He was at Parent Teacher Conferences and I was surprised to get his call. He said you need to come to the school right now and sign this consent to be presented to a Birth Mother paper so we can fax it to our Adoption Agency. We've done this many times before. Our adoption agency sent us countless situations about a baby here, a baby there.... So this time I didn't really get my hopes up. I didn't really think we would ever get chosen. I turned the car back around and drove to Brett's School.

I walked into Brett's classroom and signed the paper and he faxed it over to our Caseworker at A Act Of Love - our private adoption agency. A few minutes later,our Caseworker called Brett and asked Him if we would be able to fly to Houston Asap if we were chosen to be His Parents. We told her "Yes" of course. So by now I'm getting a little excited, but i was still a little skeptical. I decided to head back home went back home.

Ethan and I picked up a happy meal and went home. When we got there my Mom was pulling into the driveway. My cell phone rang and it was our adoption agency. I quickly whispered to my Mom "Adoption Agency. Will you take care of Ethan?" Our Caseworker started talking to me about this Wonderful Birth Mother in Texas. Told me that she had the baby on Wednesday morning, She wanted a closed adoption and He is healthy, drug/alcohol free, Hispanic, Vietnamese and Caucasian. We were on the phone for about 10 minutes when she said "So go ahead and get your plane tickets and we will see you when you get here."................ It was then when I finally realized that We had been chosen and that He was our Baby. ........................... I got off the phone and told my Mom that we have a baby!!!!!!!!!!!

Then the panic set in. I need diapers, cloths, formula, what should I pack, etc.. My Mom suggested that we leave Ethan with her. I didn't want to do it. I would miss him so much and I didn't want to leave him behind. She finally convinced me that it would be less stress for us all if he stayed home. I packed his bag, favorite sleeping things (Puppy, Teddy Bear, pillow pet and sleeping bag) and told him that we were going to Texas to get Baby Brother and that he was going to stay with Grandma. It was so hard saying goodbye to Him.

We got about 20 minutes of sleep and headed to the airport at 4:30 the next morning (friday). We got on the plane at 6:30 am. It was so neat to see the sun rise from the sky. 

 I was so distracted thinking about this little baby boy. Was he ok? What did he look like etc.... I looked out the window a lot and was the first one to notice that we were flying over the Grand Canyon.

We arrived in Houston at noon. We got a rental car and bags. We made arrangements with our Caseworker from the adoption agency. First we needed to meed with the TX Attorney that was going to represent us in court in Texas. We turned on the GPS and still had no clue where we were going. We got lost most of the time. We finally reached Her office and met with our Attorney. She was kind of trying to talk us out of going through with the adoption. I kind of wondered if She had another family that she wanted the baby to get. Finally after what seemed like FOREVER, Brett boldly said "It was nice talking to you, but we need to go meet our Son."

We headed towards the Hospital and got lost AGAIN. Our Caseworker texted us this picture

Such a sweet picture. 

We were told to meet our Caseworker in the ER waiting room. We got to the ER and washed our hands. When I walked out of the bathroom..... there He was. He was so tiny in his little car seat. Melissa (our caseworker) handed him to me and said "Here's your Baby." ........................ If you are a woman you know what ...................... means. :) Melissa had His Birth Mom in her car and was going to take the Birth Mom home. Melissa told us to hide behind the Christmas Tree so when they drove by the hospital the BM would not see us in the window. This is how closed of an adoption this is. We waited five minutes and got out of there. Germs. The whole time looking over my shoulder, wondering if anyone was going to stop us.

We got in the car and started driving to our Hotel. The hotel we booked was another hour away. At this point, I didn't care how much money we lost by canceling our hotel, I just wanted Brett to drive to the nearest hotel, so I could count all of his little fingers and toes. Kiss his little face and really look at my new Son. Right then, my phone rang and it was an unknown number. I answered it and it was the Sister of a dear family friend. She lived very close to where we were. She said "We would love it if you guys would come stay with us, We adopted a baby 16 years ago and would love to have you stay with us for Thanksgiving." Talk about an answer to a prayer. They were such wonderful people.
We really had a great time with them and I think they even enjoyed having us in their home. We truly enjoyed spending these precious days with them.

I cannot stop crying these past few days. About a month ago I got the strong feeling that we were going to get a baby before Christmas. Occasionally our adoption agency would send us an email of a baby due in January or February etc... and I just kept thinking of my strong feeling about a baby before Christmas. I found myself looking at things to buy this baby for Christmas. Now I can't wait to go CHRISTMAS SHOPPING :)

Today is Thanksgiving. I am so grateful for everything that has happened in the last day, week, month and year.

His name is

Todd James Christensen

Todd is a family name on Brett's side of the family and James is the name his Birth Mother gave him. Since Ethan's Birth Mom gave him his middle name we wanted to keep that tradition going. I still cannot believe that I did not even know about little Todd this time last week. It has been a pleasure getting to know him these past few days. He's One Week Old TODAY.

Things are falling into place. The Birth Mother signed relinquish papers on Monday. :) :) We met with our Attorney yesterday and Inter State Compact starts today. So we hope to be able to come home SOOOOOOON. I miss Ethan so much!!! He is having a blast at Grandma and Grandpa's house.

He is such an easy baby. Only cries when he's hungry. It has been so much fun getting to know Him. We went to Kohls today to buy a shirt and tie for Brett for Court on Tuesday. While we were there, a passerby stopped to talk with us. She then said "You are so blessed." I said in return "You have no clue how blessed We truly are." We feel so lucky to have him.

Another thing that is so fun is that we are staying with a family friend and had the opportunity to go to there sons eagle court of honor. Everyone was so impressed at how good I looked and thought that I should be shouting "I am women hear me roar" because I was out and about three days after my baby was born. I politely informed them that Todd is adopted. Everyone is so supporting with us.

There are a few things that still need to happen.

So PLEASE keep is in your prayers.

Short and Sweet

Sorry, but this is going to be short and sweet. We have a new little Baby Boy!!!!!!! For those of you who read this blog know, We have been in a long wait for him. We did not know about Him until about 3:30 yesterday. It's been QUICK. He is Three days old. 6 lbs 10 oz and 17 inches long. No Name yet (I know....). We picked him up today and and are loving every inch of Him. More will come shortly. :)

My Buddy

Often, people tell me how cute He is . I say "He is and we have so much fun."

He's always been a fantastic sleeper. He has slept through the night since he was about two months old. Now he sleeps until about 8:30 - 9:00 every morning. I make sure that I quit whatever I'm doing and head back into bed for snuggle time with Him. He's so cute. He comes out of his room and heads into ours. I pretend I'm sleeping and he climbs into our bed and gives me noses and says to me "You waked up!" or "You had a good nap." Then I open the covers and he snuggles right in. He calls snuggling - nuggle. He's the best little "nuggler" in the world. We snuggle in bed for a while and watch a cartoon or two.

He has got the best imagination. The other day I was down sewing a quilt together. He got ahold of my fabric cutting ruler and was playing with it. He noticed a reflection in it and said "Mommy, It's a mirror."

He is a fast learner. I love teaching him new songs and riddles. We went and got a Happy Meal for lunch the other day and the toy was Humpty Dumpty. I taught him the riddle. He learned it so fast.

He's a great little prayer. For some reason he always says things like "I love my fingers and toeses," "I love my cousins and peoples and friends," and the cutest part is when he says "Please bless Baby Brother or Sister to come Sooner Sooner Sooner." :)

He loves playing outside in the sandbox. This is another place where his little imagination shines.

He loves riding on the 4 wheeler with Dad. We have an acre of land so they have plenty of space to explore.

He's the cutest little singer.

He often sings Do as I'm doing, Follow the Prophet, the Hello song, Scripture Power, I am a Child of God, I'm so glad when Daddy comes home just to name a few. Brett sings him "The River" by Garth Brooks when Ethan has a scary dream. It calms him right down and he knows it by heart.